Find a Good Time to Talk
Try to find a good time and place to talk—when you’re both comfortable and in a good mood. You will both be more open to each other’s point of view if you’re relaxed and feeling good. Right before or after sex is probably not the best time—there may be too much emotion at that time.
Some good times to talk might be:
- When planning a date night
- After a relaxing dinner
- While watching a DVD together
- When talking about taking the next step in your relationship