Anticipate How He May Respond

Try to imagine the different ways your partner may react, and think through your responses ahead of time.

Many men have opinions and strong feelings about certain contraceptive methods. Their attitudes can influence whether or not you use those methods. For example, if he tells you he hates using condoms, research with women shows you’ll be less likely to ask him to use condoms.

If you and your partner disagree about what method to use, it’s important to come up with a compromise that works for both of you. Your needs are really important. You might think it’s easier to go along with what your partner thinks, but make sure your health is protected!

Here are some ways that prevention can make sex better.

• Condoms can make a man’s erection last longer.
  • A bit of information your male partner will want to know.
  • Emphasizing how this can prolong your lovemaking may make using condoms more attractive to him.
• There are erotic ways to put on condoms.
  • Being creative when putting on condoms can make condom use a part of lovemaking.
  • You might want to show him that you know how to make condoms fun and sexy before he decides how he feels about using them.
• Remember sex is much more enjoyable when you know you can’t get pregnant.
  • It takes the pressure off and lets you fully enjoy your sexual experience with your partner.
  • Letting your partner know that you’ll be less inhibited if you don’t have the worry of pregnancy and STDs will likely be a big turn on.

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