Be Clear About What You'll Do

Don’t engage in any sexual behavior you are not comfortable with, and always protect yourself. Know where you draw the line and what you need to do to keep a behavior safe.

For example, you may decide you are not going to engage in unprotected sex with someone until you’re sure neither you nor your partner have an STD and both of you are committed to monogamy. That means you and your partner need to use a barrier method, such as a male or female condom, as well as an effective birth control method.

Being clear that having unprotected sex is something you are not willing to do will keep you focused on the goal of working together with your partner on a plan to protect your health, and his.

Click on the link below to see a video

My Bottom Line - One Woman's Story